Listen to me, Denver. Trust your instincts here. If you think she's moving towards reconciliation, you are probably right. I thought the same thing in my sitch, was talked out of it and suddenly was blindsided about H wanting to come home. Now, I'm scrambling to make a plan.
You need to work on how you see this reconciliation going. What tools will you both use? What emotions do you still have to deal with? How do you intereact better? All those things...
I'm not at all worried about the OM. I agree with you, the shine has worn off. You don't have time to worry about it either. It's time to make a plan. Then post it for me so I can steal some ideas
I am so freaking proud of you, Denver!!! You are doing great. DO NOT let your ego get away from you, though. You know a lot more than she does about fixing marriages because of what you have learned here. But you do not know a lot more about her feelings than she does. Understand?
