Still so lost, the only conversations that she wants to have is how to get separated and logistical items with the household and children. I am not resisting D and separation talk, but should I be "dragging my feet" and not agreeing or making it easier for her to leave. I am not very clear on this with respect to the LRT?
I dragged my sitch out as long as I could, made her explain to the kids that she wanted the D, and I wanted to save the M; made her wait until after the holidays etc etc. Then she filed and that was that. We're in the D process now, and I just want to get it over with. My W is not the same person I married and I really don't want who she's become. We are as distant as east from west, but managing the household for the kids sake.
Take that story for what it's worth; there's little hope for a miracle in the short term. The WAS is on a journey, which they probably began a long, long time before they dropped the bomb.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
