I agree with the others, and would add what is he worried about? We attack when we are scared. It hurts, but as Dolphin says, try not to take it personally. Yo can always block his emails you know

I know it hurts, I got all of this when I decided to use a lawyer, but it was such a good decision, especially if you have a good one. They protect us from so much, and show us we are perfectly reasonable and well within our rights.

Just for the record, my h told me, among many other things, that I would bankrupt us both in seeking a 'rock star' divorce!!