Thanks for the responses, I do get the anger thing and when I think its under control or gone something else pops up. I was really never this way. I don't know what triggers this when I come in contact with my W. She tells me after an argument over money for whatever that I have not changed one bit. Anyway I will try to keep a level head about myself and keep you all posted. Maybe like some one here the more you post, the better you act around the WAW. This is why I will be posting throughout the day every day...LOL