The unexamined life is not worth living

[Denver_2010]

Thanks Lotus. I will strongly consider this. I think that my W is close to moving fully towards reconciliation. If this happens within the next week or two, then I will suggest it to her. We've already talked about the fact that we will need to go to MC. She agreed that we will have to. I have not mentioned the Retrou program, but did talk about solution based MC.

If this does NOT happen within the next week or two and we are still in limbo, I may go ahead and do what you just suggested.

One worry that I have is that Retrou is too religious based. My W is a bit more religious than I am, but neither of us have been weekly church goers in the past (I have been going weekly since W left me though).

Should I be concerned about this?