grr..did you remember to look hot when you went to the school today in a soccer mom sort-of way???!!!
BITS
M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
hi zen yes i did, but i am really not a soccer mom let's put it this way, my skateboard riding, guitar playing 8 year old, eats spinal tap, green day, and my chemical romance for lunch (i prefer the sex pistols, being old school)
but it didn't matter how i looked husband couldn't get away fast enough when the party was over hope your day was great
WOW! Your H must not be very smart the way that you just described yourself grr... That's all I have to say about that.
BITS Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
This is what I think of our H's escaping.... especially during these times of love....
They are afraid the memories will make them face up the fact they they are living a lie... that they really do love us...
My H said that our 13 years of m was living a lie.... I told him it was not because we did not know any better then....
Gosh, there are so many posters today. It just shows how badly this days hurt us.... we always come here when we are down.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
Its very comforting to think that someone out there is looking out for us.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
grr, I loved reading your story. Funny the way life goes. My W and I went on our first date and I decided I didn't like her. I went over to her apartment and told her I didn't think we had much in common and I thought it best to tell her in person. She played it off but I found out through another friend that she still liked me. We hung out in the same social circles, so we couldn't avoid each other. Long story short, after a couple of months of constantly running into each other at parties and other functions, we decided to give it another shot. The rest is history.
And now she has left me. I guess life can be cruel sometimes.
Anyway, have a good day and hang in there!
BITS never walk alone!
FOBD
Me: 39 W: 36 T: 15 yrs M: 9 yrs S: 09/10
So you can get on with your search, baby And I can get on with mine And maybe someday we will find, That it wasn't really wasted time...
denver, you always know just what to say thanks fobd, thank you for sharing your story i hope you keep it up and your wife comes around it is funny how things work out i think back on the time i had with my h, and now he just seems like a stranger to me i think the scary thing about being separated (one of them anyway) is how disconnected i am feeling towards him i am going to keep up my dbing (which i am not very good at right now) but if he turns, i just might not be here i think the only reason to do this now is for our son which is perfectly valid but i don't look at him these days and think "god, i'd love to be in his arms right now" maybe my pride and self worth are coming back
