I can't give you much advice right now as my anger towords my H is imparing my judgment...but I do feel for you. Keep on posting! Sending you a hug!

Me:35, 2 kids from PR
H: 37, 2 kids with me
T: 15 years
M: 8 years in Feb.
Second walk out: 14-01-2011
H had PA: 2007