Down - Thank you so much for telling me about your story. It is nice to hear that it is possible to get through something like this. Yes, I do think that I will be able to. It will be hard and it will take some time. But I will get through it. And yes, there is no doubt in my mind that OM in my sitch has been a 'fill in' for me. I do not know him, and I'm sure that makes it somewhat easier. Not easy... just easier.
Thanks again.
I will look for your thread if you have one.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce