I know how frustrating it is. I am in exactly the same boat as you - EA "done" but not sure, my H also takes pictures of things I know interests her (funny how they all act the same way.... technology brings on a different spin to A's... sometimes I abslutely hate the iPhone)
Glad your h defended you .... it means he still does care.
But it will come and go - he will be detached, then start coming close again, pursuing, then cycling away, then back.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go