I can have real mixed emotions. I can say without a doubt that using the LRT has improved our communication and interactions, but without signs that she is thinking about some sort of reconciliation you can wonder if you are just making it easier on them. It is hard to know how 'nice' to be. I really wonder if I am over doing it. For example I helped her move some things. I can feel like I am just being walked on. IDK, maybe it just takes more patience.
I am also wondering if I need to go from LRT to just dark. Let her do something. It is actually driving me crazy that she has not filed yet. ARG!!!
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