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now we're all at the hard part of the goal setting, especially if you're not used to it.

At first it's a novelty and then it wears off.

Let's keep it going.

Today, for me. ZERO R talk. NONE. If W brings it up, I will with short responses but I want to be the new Bolt.

Who's up?

(Vday hurts but this is exactly why we should do this)


m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE
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Bolt - This is the first that I have read about your goal approach, and I really dig it. I am going to try to chime in tomorrow morning.

There I go. First goal. Set a goal for tomorrow morning.


Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
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My Goal for today....

1. I will............Man this is hard. I'll get back to you......today!


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accomplished!!!
it starts small, 2step (smarta$$ smile )

LOL


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married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE
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LOL bolt you are first to call me a smart a$$ you are wise beyond your years sir! I promise I'm going to post a small goal that I would like to accomplish tomorrow I don't know why this is so hard


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because of my history with valentines day, i could not set a goal

i was moody and at the edge of tears all day

go ahead, boltie, smack me

now i would love to hear what you and w did today

i need good news


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Originally Posted By: grr
because of my history with valentines day, i could not set a goal

i was moody and at the edge of tears all day

go ahead, boltie, smack me

now i would love to hear what you and w did today

i need good news


Ditto


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T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd)
WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved
Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10
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Get me to the archery league and socialize for a couple of hours.
Does anyone else write in word for the spell check then paste it in?

Good news is always welcome. It lifts the spirit!


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Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
D 30
S 27

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Joining in, maybe this will help me cycle less.

H is away whole week. We always go to the gym together. tomorrow is gym day. My goal will be:

Go to the gym by myself!!!


Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18
Bomb: 6/26/10
EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ???
11/5/11 Retrouvaille
Finally piecing....
Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
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My goal this week is to go out with some friends and just have a good time!

Also I will schedule my DB session. This will be my 6th I believe


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