I just want to tell everyone that I hope they had a good Valentine's Day. I know it is a hard day for all of us. I woke up in a great mood, and baked a chocolate cake for my D16. Then I received flowers from my sweet sister who was worried how I would handle this day. I went to meet a girlfriend for lunch and then came home for a nap. My D16 sends me a text telling me H left her and me a Valentine's Day cards at school. I was shocked, it was not a mushy card, but a sweet one with a Starbuck's gift card in it. H just signed it "Enjoy, C" and I just praised God. I didn't get him anything, because I felt God leading me to leave it alone and God would handle everything. God is working on H's heart. I texted him later in the evening, while he was out with OW and said thank you for the card. I didn't expect to hear from him, because he usually ignores me when he is with her, but he sent a "You're Welcome" text. Go figure! Again, I don't know how long this is going to take, but I am allowing God to take the lead in all matters handling my H, and I am just DBing for myself. God has shown me in so many ways that He is working on H, and I just need to let go and let God! I just have to keep praising God.
Blessings to you all!
Lorie W47 H48 D16 M20 H gone 11/9/10 lives w/OW
When you forgive,you heal. When you let go,you grow. When you cry to God, you surrender. When you love unconditionally, you show others Christ's love.
