So a little easier until supper tonight and my S13 says that my D7 was hugging OM. Well, i choked on my dinner and didnt say anything. Its not her fault, she is a loving little girl. if OM is good enough for mommy, then he is good enough for her in her mind.
Doesnt make it any easier. Not only has he taken my W but now he is looking after my kids, being affectionate. I have had all i can take.
I drew the line in the sand with my kids, i told them to have fun when with mommy, but that right now, i dont need to hear about what they do there. As time passes maybe i will, but for the next little while to keep their life with mom to themselves.
I know that is next to impossible for kids to do, but i just cant deal with that yet. I am at my max. right now.
Its not so much her as it is him. I just dont want him near my family. If they were to break up and she were to find a new boyfriend, i could deal with it. Just not the OM. No matter how hard i try, i cant move past it. is that normal, who knows, but it is for me.
