I agree with grr... baby steps LIS. Take it slow. Also, I like what 2Step suggested. Begin by listening.

What about this idea?... I'm wondering if the other BITS will scream "NOOooo!!" at it. LOL

- Ask your H out on a date!! Spend the evening having fun and putting R stuff on the back burner.

BITS
Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce