SA,
I'm sorry...Please don't buy into his "poor me" bs. I'm not the least bit surprised to read his response. Just as long as things are going their way, they are okay. If he were in your shoes, he would have done the exact same thing that you've done.

He's not the man you married right now and who knows who he will be years down the road. Please look at this as a business deal when dealing with the financial aspects. SA, if you don't look out for yourself, he won't do it for you.

It's going to be okay.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.