"When you love someone, you do not love them all the time, in exactly the same way, from moment to moment. It is an impossibility. It is even a lie to pretend to. And yet this is exactly what most of us demand. We have so little faith in te ebb and flow of life, of love, of relationships. We leap at the flows of the tide and resist in terror the ebb. We are afraid it will never return." -Anne Morrow Lindbergh
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
I put this on my FB page for my friends. My H is not friended on my page.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.
Do me a favor, rent a billboard near my W's new apartment and put that on it...
FOBD
FOBD - I would totally do that and can you do the same for me my STXH's apt?!
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
I put this on my FB page for my friends. My H is not friended on my page.
I feel honored Scylla! Too bad he's not on your page.....!
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
I feel honored Scylla! Too bad he's not on your page.....!
YW Zengypsy, it speaks to me.
I originally didn't even know H had a FB page. I found out from my sibling on a Christmas evening they were playing Mafia Wars. I had no knowledge of it previously, although he claims he told me. I did ask to be friended and he did so with a lot of reluctance. We did play Mafia Wars for a while until I got frustrated with the game and the situation. I removed him from my FB as a friend as seeing that all these people that were "friends" on his page just made me feel jealous and insecure and it was pretty obvious he wasn't really happy having me there. H. wouldn't even acknowledge our relationship.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.
I feel honored Scylla! Too bad he's not on your page.....!
YW Zengypsy, it speaks to me.
I originally didn't even know H had a FB page. I found out from my sibling on a Christmas evening they were playing Mafia Wars. I had no knowledge of it previously, although he claims he told me. I did ask to be friended and he did so with a lot of reluctance. We did play Mafia Wars for a while until I got frustrated with the game and the situation. I removed him from my FB as a friend as seeing that all these people that were "friends" on his page just made me feel jealous and insecure and it was pretty obvious he wasn't really happy having me there. H. wouldn't even acknowledge our relationship.
I get cool quotes every day. It keeps me..."zen"!!!!
FB....I dunno. It's a devil's playground as someone so eloquently put it on these boards once! My H blocks me, then unblocks me etc. I have never blocked him; I have never had anything to hide. I removed all my relationship status stuff after he changed his from married to it's complicated and now seperated. The day he puts his relationship status as "in a relationship" that will be the deal breaker for me. I have always tried to use FB as a window not a billboard. AS you can see, my H couldn't wait to make the status of our relationship a billboad. Hey if that's what makes him sleep better at night - whatever. It's a freakin' facade. Perhaps this is just yet another way of our WAS's attempt at thinking they have control. Key word....thinking!
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
