You BITS are the best.

Thanks for everyone weighing in. I have alot of information to mull over.

Thank you all for saying my msg to my mom was beautiful; it's just the kind of person she was.

I wish I had some xtra $ to go get myself some flowers, but I spent it on my kick a$$ shoes and flowers for my mom. What I am going to do is follow Hope's advice with a twist. I'm going to prob take a pic of the flowers I got for my mom, post it on FB and then tommorrow thank everyone for their well wishes and say something like, what a way to celebrate; flowers, dinner and a movie! Pretty broad statemnt - these things can be done at home or out. Trying to raise that curosity Hope!

Denver, I'd post the pic of my shoes on FB, but if H saw them, he would just be like she's shopping....again. Major bone of contention with him. Don't want to stir the pot too much with the court date pending. If I didn't have that, I would so post that pic in a heartbeat!!!

Hugs and Love to you all - ZEN


BITS

M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0
T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd)
WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved
Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10
Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11