Trusting, You are so right...he needs to be the one to put forth the effort to show you he wants to reconnect/reconcile. Continue as you have been doing. Nothing says you have to respond to him each and every time he calls and/or emails. Life does not revolve around him and his drama. You have a life and family to take care of which comes first these days.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
