I have thought about this more today. One thing that helped me was this, I realized what I am doing is the absolute HARDEST thing to do, not the easiest. IMO, a doormat is someone who lays down because they are weak. What we are doing takes a great deal of STRENGTH!
There is still a line for sure, and it is hard to know exactly where that line is. But... right now, I feel like I am FIGHTING, not laying down. The furthest thing from being a 'doormat.'
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
