Stinks. My W just called, said "I hope your not planning to get me anything for V-Day, because I don't want anything".
I just said, "Ok, that's good to know".
She said, "I don't want flowers or anything.", and I just said, "You don't want flowers from ME, or you don't want flowers?"
She said, "I don't want flowers, and I don't want anything from you"
So I just said, "Did the girls enjoy their gifts?"
She said, "Yes, they were really excited but it surprised me that you did that because it's not like you to be thoughtful."
I just replied, "I know, and I'm realizing that being thoughtful also makes me feel good."
Then I just, "Bye, and I'll see you later". I hung up.
Now I want to cry...
Am I the only one that sees positives in this conversation? I would of left the comment out about the flowers from me. Serves no purpose at all.
As far as her saying you are not normally thoughtful I think that is a good thing. She will probably go through a range of questions about you. I think the most common first reaction is annoyance, irritation and skepticism. If you are consistant she will notice
