My W did the same thing. I did a lot of woodworking and made lot of furniture pieces just for her. She always loved it. When she moved, she left every one of them behind. She said she did not want any of them. I can definitely understand how you must feel. The way i have trained myself to look at this is "Hey my wife herself left. Why am i still being sentimental about inanimate objects". I guess i am training myself to put more feelings and emotions on people rather than on things. Now i know thats bad too. But for now i have to do it because my house right now is filled with objects that i made to show my love towards her. You gotta develop the detachment. I think that's also good for long term.
BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...
