WAW tearing up our family

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Just make sure the car is safe and move on from there. Had the same issue. I guess we all do.

As for the NAIR issue from earlier...Had a similar issue. Wife wearing undergarments that are reserved for special occasions. The anger, pain, resentment all build up. But until you let go of Hope, the anger will continue. It is hard step, but that is the only way you become free from having this stuff rule your mind. I did the checking of cell phone, cell phone bills, you name it..It all pointed to the same emotional affair, physical affair?? I was one step away from the GPS tracker...One day I just stopped caring. It took close to a year to get there. But one day I woke up and said I am better than this..I don't desrve this and my Hope went away for a reconciliation between us.

So if reconciliaton happens- great, if it didn't--I would prepare myself for life as a single Dad. Well, I ended up as the single dad and I'm OK.

My only point is have pride in who you are as a person and a father.

Don't give in to the temptation of snooping..Someone mentioned earlier, if you find out for sure, what will you do differently? You can confront as I did, they deny, deny, deny...

I was also not embarrassed enough to admit therapy also helped...I went for about a year. It helps.

I can tell you this. She isn't doing that well. She isn't that happy. The grass isn't always greener. She made her decision..I can sleep well at night..

Be strong.