I'm trying to take the high road here in this sitch. I want to remain at least friendly with WAH. We have two children together, and hopefully grandchildren some day. I don't want the bitterness I've seen between some couples to be present when we are in the same place at the same time. Of course, ultimately the best situation, IMO, would be reconciliation.
Problem: H wants to be in the wedding planning loop. D is in school, works a lot of hours, visits fiance out of town whenever possible.
So, is it OK to have D, soon to be SIL, and WAH for dinner Saturday pm to discuss wedding plans? I don't want to be seen as a pursuer, but before Xmas my goal with DB coach was positive interactions with H via phone.
