2Step, is that you?? Telling Hope not to fail to see the small victories wink

Hope!!! Wow, I think that you sound fantastic. I think you are also doing great recognizing his changes. That is so important to do right now as you've come to the realization that he's auditioning also.

One thing. You don't need to trust him. I think trust is earned and he hasn't earned it yet. What he did was crappy. Period. What you do have to do is not obsess about it. Listen, I am 100% convinced that my H cheated on me. I KNOW where you are coming from. But you worrying about it is going to change nothing other than stress you out. Don't stress about it, if he does something stupid, you'll find out. We always do smile

You're doing great, girl! I wish my H would tell me that he loved me. Of course, I have to give him more of an opening.

I'm praying for you.

LIS


Me- 40
H - 43
M - 5
T - 14
Separated 2/5/11