Originally Posted By: zengypsy
No, I'm really not looking for a fight. I'm a lover not a fighter! Picking a fight is only doing more of the same and would be a moot point


It doesn't appear that way.

And this is why...

Originally Posted By: Zengyspy
if that included a subtle dig, then so be it.


Does this further your cause in any way?

It looks like more of the same to me.

Listen, you are going to reply to him no matter what anyone says, if that is what you want to do.

And somehow, someone's feelings, probably yours, will get hurt.

View his message as kind words, something you admit you are not used to right now, and leave it at that.

And make today special for yourself. Because you want to and for no other reason.


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox