Stinks. My W just called, said "I hope your not planning to get me anything for V-Day, because I don't want anything".

I just said, "Ok, that's good to know".

She said, "I don't want flowers or anything.", and I just said, "You don't want flowers from ME, or you don't want flowers?"

She said, "I don't want flowers, and I don't want anything from you"

So I just said, "Did the girls enjoy their gifts?"

She said, "Yes, they were really excited but it surprised me that you did that because it's not like you to be thoughtful."

I just replied, "I know, and I'm realizing that being thoughtful also makes me feel good."

Then I just, "Bye, and I'll see you later". I hung up.

Now I want to cry...

Me - 34
W - 33
M - 8 years
T - 15 years
D7, D5, D2
Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY"
W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011