[i]he often comes to me and pretty much asks my opinion about things. He's seen and admires my growth and we've had a lot of talks about it. So I am walking a fine line between giving him the feedback he wants from me, and trying to not "fix him". These could be my words. I don't actually say that he should work on himself, though, as that would not go down well with my WAH, but I do try and encourage him to do things, constructive things, that will make him feel better about himself and life. Interestingly my WAH's lease runs out soon too. We had talked about him moving back in - but mainly for practical reasons and the friendship that remains. I know deep down that we both need more time in separate residences though. I don't know if he will ever come back. Like your spouse mine still asks for my advice on many things.
