Zen, go buy yourself some roses, take a photo and post on FB with "my gorgeous Valentine's Day roses, can't wait for dinner and movie tonight!". Then take yourself out to dinner and a movie!! Grab a girlfriend if you want.

#1 It will get his curiosity up but it's not meant to make him jealous, just to see that you are having a good day and not sitting around crying over him (because that is NOT attractive!)

#2 It will lift your spirits and you deserve it!

#3 Most importantly - Be your own Valentine! Detach, GAL, act as it, whatever you want to call it. Just treat yourself, enjoy the day and the fact that are DB'ing and working on YOU. Love yourself.

Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy
H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16

Dating 4/07
M 10/08
Bomb #1 12/10
Bomb #2 1/11
Bomb #3 12/11