What did you get out of the dig that you put on FB?
Were you expecting a reaction from him?
And then you got upset by his message to you about your mom, which was a kind comment...
I realize you just got D papers, and I am sorry that you had to go through that....
However, you must feel your feelings without taking it out on him or looking for a reaction from him...
Honestly, it seems like you are looking for a fight right now.
Cat....
No, I'm really not looking for a fight. I'm a lover not a fighter! Picking a fight is only doing more of the same and would be a moot point. I wasn't expecting a reaction either. But he did react in a positive way.
What I wrote is truly how I feel about my mom and if that included a subtle dig, then so be it. But it is the truth. I wasn't upset about his message to me, I got nervous when I saw he sent me a msg because we don't communicate and whenever he reaches out to me to communicate, it's always very negative. My guard is up with him ALL the time for my protection. My trust in him is very low at this juncture and sadly so.
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
