Iron,


Been there done that with the car thing....

I had always taken care of that in the past, and when the first problem occurred, I stepped back...

She was viewing me as controlling, and I felt that to take charge, I would be the same ol , same ol....

What happened was the total reversal of what I thought.

I got blasted because I DIDN'T take charge , and fix her car for her.....

It's a no win situation right now...

Nothing you do will be right...

I would say that you have to ask yourself one question regarding your decision to fix or not to fix....

Is the car safe for my Daughter to ride in ?

How would I feel if I did nothing, and left my children stranded on the side of the road ?

Then take it from there....

Remove her, and yourself from any equation.....