Congratulations on getting back together. Moving and settling into a new place is really traumatic. That's when my whole marriage really unravelled. You and your wife might find the Retrouvaille program helpful. They teach effective communication skills that really pull people back together. You can get info about the Retrouvaille weekends on their website, www.helpourmarriage.org. And there is a thread in the piecing forum called "Retrouvaille Means Change" that tells a lot about the program. It was the saving grace for my marriage and for thousands of others.
