Zen,

Stop.

Tell me this...

Even though your H probably didn't get it...

What did you get out of the dig that you put on FB?

Were you expecting a reaction from him?

And then you got upset by his message to you about your mom, which was a kind comment...

I realize you just got D papers, and I am sorry that you had to go through that....

However, you must feel your feelings without taking it out on him or looking for a reaction from him...

Honestly, it seems like you are looking for a fight right now.


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox