I know you are right of course. It is always so easy to look at someone else and see clearly, that is why I love you guys. Looking at my own usually clouds my mind.
Lis,
Did you see my list of positives? I was wondering if that was the right approach or not? I do think I have made some positives along the way. I guess what I am struggling with is deciding on is the next move.
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“She wants to prove something to herself and probably to you too. She also probably wants to break out of this pattern a bit (why do you think she called with the book???) but she doesn't know how.”
I agree to a certain extent, that is why some of the insight on here is so positive for us because it gives you another angle you have not considered. She could just be done but everyone seems to think that is not really the case. Keep on trucking is all we can do. I think wrestling our own demons is probably the hardest part.
