and i'm sorry about your mom, very beautiful post and it must be hard not to have her with you during this time. *hugs*
he did message that he was thinking of your mom today and seeing your post he probably felt he should let you know that. I'd say that's a positive. If you do respond just thank him do NOT spit out what you really want to say.. lol
and let him feed his darn ego, he probably has a gaping hole in his heart and needs to fill it somehow.
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"Good memories tell you that your past was worth it, bad ones tell you that you were strong enough to go on"