sparks...your wife is still talking to you without venom
this is positive
you can not push her on her journey use the time to work on your own
if you are always worried about her therapy and the OW when will you have time to work on you?
certainly saving your marriage is important but in order to save your marriage you have to save you
what are you doing to save you? make you a better person? happier with yourself? more confident in who you are?
I agree. Worrying about the OW and her therapy sessions is beating me up. I need to GAL. I started off with that well, but I have been off course the last week.
In couple's therapy, should I avoid talk about the OW completely? I really want to address the OW on "the shelf" comment, but it seems that the consensus is to avoid any talk of OW at all. Even in this situation where there is also no commitment to reconcile?
I am very happy that we are getting along right now. We never really stopped getting along is the crazy thing. There has never been venom. I think I need to be thankful for that.
Me - 33 W - 33 S - 9 months M - 3 years T - 5.5 years Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY PA discovered - 1/18/11 PA began - 3/22/10 Separated
