Originally Posted By: figgeroni
you have already asked her about a dinner this week

and
definately I would bring the baby along

no I love you's

she knows you love her
pushing it on her will only make her feel guilty that she can't give you what you want back right now

give her the songbooks from your son



That's a great idea, Figg.

W just picked up S just now. I mentioned plans for the next few nights. Tonight would be my night to have our S. Tomorrow night we have couples therapy, so her brother and his girlfriend baby sit until we get her back later, and then he stays there.

I asked her if she would be willing to come over for to the house for bedtime routine and have a casual dinner tonight. She told me that she did not want to celebrate Valentine's Day with me and that we had talked about having dinner another night. Those were tough words to hear, but I understand. She was planning on having dinner with her brother and watching The Bachelor in her pajamas.

I think I will give her the card with a brief, "no i love you" message and then the songbook from our S. I guess that I should wait until we meet for dinner to give them later this week? I don't want to force them to her on Valentine's when I pick my S up tonight.


Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated