Chrys - Take a deep breath and calm down. First, please, please don't get your hopes and expectations up too high about what is going to happen. I don't mean to be a stick in the mud, but I don't want you to be let down. Be happy that you have an opportunity to see him and to DB this afternoon. If something even better happens, then that is just icing on the cake.

Second, you need to really be prepared to focus on DB when he comes to the house. Go review any notes you've taken or go review that parts of DR that you have been applying to your situation. It's these opportunities that we are all preparing for when we are doing all of this work.

Lastly, as grr would say... go make yourself look hot!!

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Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce