sparks...your wife is still talking to you without venom

this is positive

you can not push her on her journey
use the time to work on your own


if you are always worried about her therapy and the OW
when will you have time to work on you?


certainly saving your marriage is important
but
in order to save your marriage you have to save you

what are you doing to save you?
make you a better person?
happier with yourself?
more confident in who you are?