Positively moving forward

[mishka422]

This is going to sound cold but....take him to the cleaners! If he is really trying to get all of this and it isn't just his L writing up the 'standard' paperwork that opens the negotiation then he deserves everything that is coming to him. If you must, hire a forensic accountant and dig up every penny your H is making & spending and exactly how much he HAS NOT paid toward your son's living expenses.

This man is apparently extremely immature and has no clue what it really takes to raise a child both monetarily and emotionally.

I'm not one to normally say that a man needs to be awoken to the reality of the situation they created but.........UGH!