To be honest V-Day has never really been a big deal with my W. Although she loves flowers - she thinks it's silly to waste money since they die, chocolates are great - but nobody wants to eat them and gain weight, lingerie - never been good, because no matter how many times you tell them or try to show them, she doesn't like her body.

So I went out and made little V-Day grab bags for my 3 girls (didn't tell the W) and put them out on the kitchen table before I went to work. I thought maybe I'd get a call this morning, but nothing.

I really doubt my W feels any connectin to the day itself, but for me it's just another reminder of what I've lost.

...and seeing all of the advertising...is just torturing me!!

It's just 1 day, heck I got through my anniversay...I can make it through today!

BITS
SIC

Me - 34
W - 33
M - 8 years
T - 15 years
D7, D5, D2
Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY"
W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011