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[habitacker]

5 months into this and I really see her getting farther away. She is the coldest she has ever been. We started out at least doing things together with the kids, now she will not even do that anymore.

Since the talk where I validated her feelings, this seems to have allowed her to move on.

I really don't know what I am doing wrong when it comes to DBing. I may not have detached completely, but it seems the more I go my own way, the more she goes hers.

I am supposed to do what works, but I can't find anything that works, and really don't know of other options.