Thanks sparks its not much but at least it tells me i'm still on her mind.I think the biggest obstacle i have over come is to stop asking her if there is someone else. It took me a long time to get to this point and if there is someone else there is nutten i can do but continue to be her friend not ask her about it and wait for it to play out. I had a 3 year affair when she was doing nutten so i have just had to learn to suck it up.
