Positively moving forward

[awest1217]

I hear you CTH, but according to the bank (and this surprised me) they said there is extra paperwork I can have signed so they couldn't go after H. The honest truth is I am and have been helping H's credit. I pay everything on time and pay a little extra every month. This all helps him.

You have to remember CTH, that my H is not a responsible father. He is not just barely making ends meat because of getting this divorce. He spend 18 months with only a $200 college loan and 5 of those months never paid me a dime. He could have been saving. He could have paid of the college loan by now so that he had no debt at all when this was all over. He wasted his money.

This is the man who went to Disney World over Father's day with OW instead of being with his S.

I am not trying to ruin H and am trying to give him the best deal I can, but I am not goign to suffer because he has chosen to live with OW and take on her thousands in debt. It is not my problem.

Oh an to add to it all. H has been working with OW and making extra money (probably not much, but could be as much as $2000 a year) that he did not tell my L about when figuring the child support. This is what I am dealing with. Not the awesome dedicated dads I have heard about. If he was that way I would be ok with it, but I pay for everything and do everything, and he doesn't get to take money from me because he has him two nights a month (his choice). I have always made S available to him and he chooses not to see him.

I talk to my L today.

It was a great weekend besides finding out about H's lying again. I had a lot of fun and enjoyed myself.