My intuition has been telling me that there is something going on. One day I had his phone and a woman just so happened to email him and say "goodnight babe." What a coincidence right? Prior to this incident I asked him calmly if he was talking to any woman that I didn't know about or ANYTHING and he said no.
At this point I don't know what to believe out of his mouth anymore. He claimed the woman that sent the email; they were just "friends" and that he had confided in her about our marital problems. He said that he didnt tell me about her because he didnt want me to know that he had confided in another woman. I'm sure that he is having an emotional affair at minimum and this separation or divorce is so that he can be free to do whatever he wants to do. Also, just in general he has been becoming more "friendly" with female co-workers; totally disregarding my feelings. He doesn't even respect me anymore. I feel like he just "wants out" and why should I fight for someone who doesn't even care if I am around or not? I go back in forth on whether or not I should DB or just file for divorce. I don't think that he will actually file; he's waiting for me to do it. One good reason to fight would be the unconditional love that I have for him.
Me: 27 H: 27 M:5 years Together: 9 years No Children Bomb: 1/1/11 ILYNILWY & Wants Separation Moved Out: 1/30/11 Has not filed yet but says that he does not want to reconcile
