Well after four months of being separated and a month of no communication and being angry at each other i finally filed for divorce and she was served this past Friday. i also cut her off financially with the exception of paying the house and her car payment. I went out with a friend Friday night and she text him during the evening wanting to know if we were out which he responded yes. The next morning she text me with the first initiated text in months, asking if i had fun last night. I responded not really was kinda boring and left it at that. We then discussed our child for a few minutes and i ended the conversation. We text again yesterday and talked for a few minutes about the relationship i started by saying i was sorry for every thing. She responded saying its ok we are both to blame and neither are perfect we just have alot for each other to work on and that she didn't want a big war. Guess its better than being ignored but who knows i think she is still leaning towards following thru with the divorce.
