Denver, I've had people comment to me on my sitch saying 'the thing between you, W and OM is weird'. I've told them I agreed it was weird, but that I know what I'm doing and that this sitch won't go on forever.
I too used to, well not worry, but be concerned with what people thought of the whole sitch. What they though of me (doormat, fool, whatever). I can't control any of that other than my actions. Lately, most people have seen me as a pretty upbeat, smiling, laughing person who's trying out new things in life and making the best of it all. I know you can do the same!
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011