I am working on detatching. She called yesterday asking questions about the water heater and asked when I would be available to install a new one. I did miss a couple of her calls not on purpose but because I lost my phone. You may not see the humor in this but my wife thought I wasn't going to talk to her anymore. Well I told her the truth and installed the water heater as an upbeat very happy man. No talk of OM, no talk of our relationship, just daily talk and quite a bit of talking about the girls. So I give my self a happy face for being a good man.
I am a new man today. I know I didn't deserve what she has said she has done but I also know I can live with out her in my life. I would prefer to keep my family intact but I just don't see that happening in the near future. Something is fishy about what is going on with her right now and I am just going to sit back and see what happens. I am the better catch and I realized everything that I have done wrong needs to be fixed, so I am going to make changes to better me and quit worring about who or what she is doing. I am starting to remember what I was like before I became the lazy man in my marriage. Now I just need to get him back out and live like a normal man should.
I like it how all of you have been helping me out and I really feel you have lifted my spirits. I thank you!
Me 44 W 38 M 18 D 18 D 13 Bomb 10/21/2010 Divorced 7/19/2011 Just getting to the 7th inning!
