Oh blimey, not one of those family round robins! How hurtful and unnecessary of her, she obviously has no perception of how you might feel or how this may effect you. Blow it off hey.
Wow, 8 dates and no kisses!?? I've moved in with guys sooner than that I agree with Kat, just reach up and kiss him. He sounds kind of insecure about rejection if he makes a move? Did his wife leave him by any chance? So.. is there any spark, chemistry, is there an air of unbridled unrequited passion and tension in the air when you see him, or.. not really?! Maybe its not happening if theres no urge to on either side..?
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread