W told me yesterday that she will be going again soon to look at houses, as the builder is going to be releasing them for sale shortly. They are literally a 2 minute walk from our current house. W said she "just wanted me to know".

I said that was fine, but asked that she not make any "final" decisons such as signing a contract or putting down a non-refundable down-payment.

I reverted back a little, and was asking her to make sure this is really what she wanted - to really think about it.

I don't believe she is going to change her mind.

She asked me what I'm planning to do when we sell the house. I told her I hadn't put a lot of thought into it, but that I'd likely plan to rent to try and save some money. She just said "oh is that supposed to make it easier for us to get back together?" I just said no, that I want to get my finances in shape before I look to buy anything.

I went out on Saturday night (didn't tell the W were I was going) and got home late. Just went out to local bar with my BF for a couple beers. W was very agitated in the morning, that I didn't tell her where I was going. She told me, "You need to tell what your doing, you have kids to worry about". I just said, yes I understand but I have a cell phone ad can be reached at any time.

BAH it's V-Day, got some little gifts for the girls...nothing for the W.

BITS
SIC

Me - 34
W - 33
M - 8 years
T - 15 years
D7, D5, D2
Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY"
W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011