So. Valentine's Day.

Today I have a meeting with DB coach Chuck.

Questions on my mind are:

1. How might I respond to receiving nothing more than a short text like "Happy Valentine's Day" from her.

2. What, if anything should I say about "The 12 Days of Valentine's" promises that I sent to her, prior to her buying her divorce kit.

3. How and when might I bring up the topic of getting her back to the coaching table. (My next goal for our relationship)

4. How and when might I bring up the topic of completing the immigration process, as there is information she is unaware of that will affect both of us in the future.

These are questions that I have a pretty good feeling I already know the answers to.

On my walk this morning (minus 30 degrees outside!), I was thinking about this opportunity to give my wife whatever it is she needs, as I have so often failed to do for her in the past.

Right now I feel she needs time, space, confidence in herself and her ability to make good decisions, and she needs healthy support from myself and other people.

She DOES NOT need any pressure from me whatsoever! NADA! ZERO! ZILCH!

So today I will discuss and reinforce this new awareness, while diligently doing the things I need to do for me to GAL and feel even better about myself.

Enjoy your day!

Mike


I am being the possibility of:

1) Integrity
2) Loving myself completely.
3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.

"It's do-able." What are the actions now?